No abstaining
Speaking up is hard for many people, and 'just do it" doesn't really help. Agreeing with your partners in advance that everyone will speak up, and everyone will be asked to speak up can help set a tone for full participation in discussions and decisions.
By giving this a try in the field you'll developing your own abilities while improving this resource for everyone.
No abstaining
How to do it
The why behind it
It can be uncomfortable to speak up and say what's on your mind. It's not easy, but your perspective is valuable to your team. You owe it to your team to contribute and say what you're thinking.
Interestingly, we've seen quiet behavior from both newbies and really experienced people. Across the spectrum, every voice needs to speak up and contribute to the team discussions and decisions.
Put it in your own words
Hey team, I like it when everyone is involved in discussions and decisions. Can we all agree to speak up, and to ask for each other's opinions today?
Hey team- As a guide (or patroller, or avy educator) you know I always have something to say, but sometimes I keep it to myself so I don't come across too bossy. Would you mind asking me, if you don't hear from me?
Hey team- I'm usually a quiet person, but I'm trying to speak up on the snow. Can you help me by asking my opinion if I'm not contributing?
Hey partner, I am pretty quiet, and sometimes I feel like my thoughts aren't considered. Can you help make space for me to share my thoughts throughout the planning for, and execution of this trip?
